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Arabs and Condoms and Disappointment

    • 45 posts
    October 16, 2014 3:49 PM CEST

    It is well known that many men in Middle Eastern countries do not like wearing condoms and have to be persuaded with comments like ' no condom no fuck' but how many of us have found a bigger problem. I know it has happened to me several times. You have arranged to meet your Arab friend and he comes to your hotel . You have been chatting about what you will do to each other and you are both horny. He comes in to your room and grabs you leading you to the bed, nibbling at your mouth, ears and neck while undressing you. Maybe some nipple play, maybe you suck him  or all of the other pleasures that you can imagine. His cock is rockhard and you can't wait to have it inside you as he turns you over and reaches for a condom !!!!!!!!!

    Then disaster, 'Im sorry' he says, I  put on a condom and it always goes soft'

    I have had this happen to me several times and it is always disappointing. I must admit if we have both been really horny we have started again and did it without a condom then worried about whether he has had some disease for weeks sfterwards.

    Does anyone know a solution to this other than unsafe sex?

    There is also the other type of guy of course who claims to be allergic to latex

    • 2 posts
    October 20, 2014 12:45 AM CEST

    dont play,it so simple,i fuck only with condoms

    • 34 posts
    October 22, 2014 11:07 PM CEST
    Honestly it's never happened to me that they would lose it after wearing it but I can say that most of times I lose it if I wear it.
    Not being well known as a top I don't really worry about alternative solutions but I suppose Viagra and the like would be the only option.
    • 4 posts
    October 23, 2014 8:46 PM CEST

    You can get a presription for PREP. Taken daily, it provides 99% protection against HIV.

     

    http://www.hrc.org/resources/entry/how-do-i-talk-to-my-provider-about-prep

    • 34 posts
    October 31, 2014 1:23 PM CET

    Perfect answer, Abel Dino!

    It happened to me too last week in Marrakech, I was in the park in front of the Bab Doukala bus station, and chatted (he spoke only arabian...) with a young sexy guy from the south of Morocco. Actually it was the night guardian of the park (who knows what happends at night///) who did some translation.

    Anyway, after a few cigarettes, he got up to pee behind a bush. I soon followed and then he started to kiss me . Humm, a good 19 yo kisser ;) Well I wanted to kiss something else, so I whipped out his cock, I was on my knees, he was on his knees in front of me - I was sucking on his pretty thick, average lenght cock. Than he made me turn around, and wanted to fuck me. Heard two guys coming and sitting on the bench just by us. My friend told me to stay still, and got up and told the others to leave. He came back and we started again. Put on a condom on his hard dick and he started to fuck me. It got soft.

    The 2 guys came back on the bench. He got up really angry, with the condom on his dick and started shouting and pushing the two guys away. I was hiding in the bush like a rabbit....

     

    He came back, without the condom, started kissing and sucking again, he turned me again and tried to hold me still and push his cock inside. I said no, took a new condom and rolled it on him. He got soft. "Protex is problem" he said. Well, protex is not a problem for me, so when he tried to fuck me bareback while holding my arms I pushed him back and got up.

    Wanted to leave but...what the hell, he's a good kisser (pretty rare in Marrakech) and I shouldn't leave him with the balls loaded. So i went on sucking him really good , till he came. I spat it out, and took out some wiping towels. I gave him a wiping towel, 30 dirhams (3€) for the taxi and said goodbye...


    This post was edited by MC92 at October 31, 2014 1:48 PM CET
  • March 8, 2015 5:26 AM CET
    Get you a female codom
    • 1 posts
    March 28, 2015 10:21 PM CET

    Thats why the HIV rate is really high in some tourist center in arab countries. Because there are enough tourists and arabs which are doing it without. I know a 70 years old guy from Italy, he fucks daily around and without preservative. I can imagine that he could not be clean anymore. The arab students are mostly more informed and take a preservative, thats my experience. As simple as the guy is he has the preservative allergie. :-)

    • 7 posts
    November 4, 2016 12:59 PM CET

    يجب علينا أن نفهم أن تستخدم الواقي الذكري للوقاية من فيروس نقص المناعة البشرية وغيره من الأمراض المنقولة جنسيا وغير المرغوب فيها الحمل العلاقات ري مع الفتيات) إذا كنت تثق شريك حياتك وأنت تعرف أنها نظيفة وبالاضافة الى ذلك الحين انه لا نزهت هذا كل شيء) وأنا شخصيا على ثقة من الرجال وممارسة الجنس دون العلكة)) ممارسة الجنس على الصحة)))

    • 5 posts
    November 14, 2016 12:00 AM CET

    Many men are on the bisexual continum between straight and gay. If a top is mostly attracted to women, the decreased sensation from wearing a condom can tip the scale towards not staying hard for another man.

    • 45 posts
    November 14, 2016 11:04 PM CET

    That is possibly the reason

     

    • 16 posts
    November 21, 2016 11:10 PM CET

    lightbrownshorty said: Get you a female codom

     

    Yeah, I thought of that, but don't know if that would work. Any one tried this?

    • 34 posts
    December 29, 2016 3:43 PM CET

    I started taking the Prep (Truvada) and I can enjoy all the arabian milk I always wanted :)))

     

    • 3 posts
    June 11, 2017 1:44 PM CEST
    Wait @MC92

    You let him cum in your mouth?

    Isn't that just as unsafe?
    • 16 posts
    June 12, 2017 11:38 PM CEST

    I let them cum in my mouth, love the feel of dick cumming in my mouth.